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Đại Hội Tình Thương: Xuất gia vị tha – ngày 1

Hôm nay là ngày đầu của chương trình XGVT. Sáng nay, hơn 90 vị đã thọ giới sa di, sa di ni. Tôi xin gởi vài hàng tóm tắt bài giảng trưa nay của Thầy:

Tinh chat cua nguoi tu la invisibility
Toa cu: canh truoc mat la De Thuong (kindness), phia sau lung la Dai Bi hay tinh thuong (Compassion), ben trai la Niem Vui (Hi / Joy), ben phai la Bo Thi / Cung Duong (Giving and Forgiving). Ngoi nha minh o rat tam bo, Tu Bi Hi Xa moi la ngoi nha chan chinh cua minh.
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Cau xin xuat gia, nguyen rang chung sanh, dac phap bat thoi, tam khong chuong ngai.
Tu hanh la khong ngung thay doi pham tru cua cai nhin cua minh (paradigm). Khi thay doi tam nhin (paradigm) thi cuoc doi minh thay doi. Thay doi tam nhin thi that su tien hoa.
We can be on the same level but look from different angle
get stuck: obstruction. for example, a person give me a hard time. I am stuck with the negative emotion about that person.
Monks and nuns should strive to be free of all stuckness. Monks and nuns has to understand and practice the dharma of non-retreating (nguoi xuat gia phai hieu va tu phap bat thoi).
Khi tu ma tim cau an toan thi khong tien duoc, se ngung lai, bi ket. Do do minh khong muon xay chua vi chua la cho nuong tua, tho phuong. Minh chi muon xay dung noi giup nguoi lam ban dap de cac bac tien hoa.
Khi mot nguoi tu truong ky (khong phai tu doan ky) thi rat kho giu duoc tam muon tien hoa, bien ra muon cau an toan: ke thu cua su tien hoa tam linh.

Mot khi bi ton thuong, cham tu ai thi dan dan tinh thuong bien mat giua vo chong. Nen tap lam sao tranh noi loi du dan. Nen tap lam sao vo chuong ngai (khi nguoi khac khong de thuong voi minh, minh van chiu duoc khong de bi chuong ngai boi thanh kien va su gian tuc). Khi minh gian, tuc, ghet la minh bi ket. Minh nen tranh lam nguoi minh thuong bi ket trong cam xuc negative. Khi tam minh ket thi nhieu khi lam viec de bi tro ngai, kho khan.
Ban nga luc nao cung tim cau, mong duoc huong mot cai gi do, theo no la theo duong doi.
Nhat su thong thi van su thong. Su nao? Khi thong duoc tam thuc vi nga (tro nen vi tha) thi khong bi ket nua.
hanh bat thoi: nhan ra cho^~ minh ket, nguoi lam minh ket va goi tinh thuong, mong muon nguoi do duoc thanh tuu.
Khi nao co bat cu vat gi, chuyen gi, nguoi nao lam minh muon bam vao, giu lai, so mat thi do la chuong ngai, rat kho tu.
Minh can phai tim cho ra cach tien hoa, dung tim cho an toan, dung de bi ket. Khi mot tuan ma co mot chuyen cu di lai trong dau minh la minh dang ket rat nhieu. Can nhin xuyen, cam nhan su chap truoc cua coi long cua minh, nhan loi roi xin loi de buong xa.
Su am uc, tuc toi la mot hinh thuc cua la^~y.
Noi dung phap bat thoi la tam khong chuong ngai. Neu dung xuat gia la khong bi ket. Neu ket la khong o trong phap bat thoi. We are dealing with our mindset, our consciousness. Seeking for security and comfort is a sign of stuckness.
Everything can be a stepping stone for our growth. Keep evolving is the essence of the dharma of non-retreating.
Some of us are stuck emotionally, some of us are stucked with the past: we got to move beyond because everything will change. Emotional stuckness could be the result of the need to get attention from someone, to have special treatment, the need to satisfy our needs, etc…
All of us are tight together
Network creates stability but it will create some degree of stuckness or dependency.
For example: you love someone who does not love you, you are married and then get divorced, you are dismissed from a job, etc… don’t get stuck, move on. Constantly moving on is how a bodhisattva shape their mind.
Man luoi nhan duyen, tinh cam, nghiep chuong tao thanh nhung soi day cot chat voi nhau rat rac roi lam minh ket. Minh can phai chap nhan, dung de bi ket trong nhung cam xuc gian, hon, han, dau buon, tiec nuoi: khong duoc yeu lai, vo chong ly di, bat duoi so lam, tiec nuoi sau khi xuat gia, v.v…
Nguoi co Dao khac nguoi Doi o cho khong de bi ket trong mot thoi gian lau (1 tuan, 1 thang, 1 hay nhieu nam). Neurologically, we should not hold on to an information or emtion longer than 7 days.
Luc nao cung ‘move on’ hay la tha thu, la da thuc su xuat gia.
Day la mot concept moi cua chu ‘xuat gia’: mot dinh nghia tu mot tang nhin cao hon.
To leave home: be fearless in the face of sufferings, don’t be afraid of difficulties, don’t be afraid of being stuck.

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